My mom knows this woman who's got a daughter that hates middle school. What does this have to do with me? I also hated middle school, and I turned out okay, so she thinks I should talk to this daughter and help her not hate middle school. I might not mind being pen pals with this girl (I like talking), but I think she might think it's lame, or pushy, or dumb that our moms set us up on what is basically a play date even though I'm over 20 (and she probably doesn't think of herself as much of a spring chicken either). It doesn't help that I don't have her email, I have her mom's. What to do?